Change Your Mind
- Bess Wallerstein Huff
- Jun 16
- 2 min read
You're allowed to.
Somewhere along the way, changing your mind became associated with weakness. We admire conviction. We celebrate people who stake out a position, defend it, and stand firm.
We praise certainty.
But when did changing your mind become something to apologize for?
Every decision we make is based on the information, experiences, and circumstances available to us at that moment. And those things change. We gain new information. We discover new possibilities. We realize that assumptions we once relied on no longer hold

true.
Why shouldn't our thinking evolve as well?
The reality is that change is a natural part of growth. Every one of us is the product of countless decisions that brought us to where we are today. But we're also the product of moments when we reconsidered those decisions.
Maybe you thought a particular role would bring fulfillment. You achieved it, only to realize something was still missing. Perhaps you pursued a project that seemed exciting, only to discover the challenge wasn't what you expected. Or maybe you learned that who you work with matters more than what you're working on.
Those moments aren't failures. They're insights.
Changing your mind isn't abandoning your values or giving up on your goals. It's acknowledging that you've learned something new about yourself, your circumstances, or the world around you. It requires honesty. It requires vulnerability. And often, it requires courage.
In fact, the willingness to change your mind may be one of the clearest signs of growth.
It means you're paying attention. You're learning. You're open to new perspectives and willing to challenge assumptions—including your own. It means you're choosing curiosity over certainty and progress over pride.
Imagine what would happen if we stopped viewing changing our minds as a weakness and started recognizing it as a strength.
A new idea. A new relationship. A new project. A new process. A new opportunity.
Sometimes the thing that moves us forward is something we would have dismissed yesterday.
Growth doesn't come from having all the answers. It comes from staying open to the possibility that there may be better ones.
So let's change the narrative around changing your mind.
It's not a sign of fragility. It's not a lack of conviction.
It's evidence that you're evolving.
And that's exactly what growth looks like.
Enjoyed this article?
I publish essays on leadership, organizational clarity, strategy, navigating change and more at From Drift to Direction. Subscribe free on Substack → https://fromdrifttodirection.substack.com/




Comments